In being a role model, remember itвЂ™s not about making yourself into someone youвЂ™re not (see #57 on Be Individualistic). How can you be an inspirational guide to others? Live by example. The best way to be a better person is to be a role model to others. Who is/are your role model(s), and what do you like about them? Some people IвЂ™m inspired by include Oprah Winfrey, who has done so much in the area of self-help Chadwick Boseman, who tirelessly spoke up for the black community even leading up to his death and John Christopher, a master herbalist who healed people using natural remedies and committed himself to educating and healing people. Having a role model inspires us and gives us an image of who we can be. Then, start living true to your ideal self. WhatвЂ™s your ideal self like? Picture him/her in your mind, then write down all your ideal traits. On the other hand, if you work on addressing one negative trait at a time, itвЂ™s a lot more manageable and achievable. It can be challenging to try to overhaul your character at once. Identify them, and then work on them one by one. Are there any traits that you dislike about yourself? Some traits which I didnвЂ™t like about myself in the past include being self-centered, arrogance, selfishness, critical, harshness, hardness, etc. I committed myself to a lifetime of growth back in 2006 (when I discovered my purpose), and IвЂ™ve never looked back ever since. The more you grow, the better you become. Commit yourself to growth (Be Growth-oriented).Use this as your foundational guide for self-improvement. Remember this isnвЂ™t about making yourself liked by others - itвЂ™s about becoming someone you truly love and adore, which will in turn attract the right people and opportunities into your life. If you just follow a tip a day, youвЂ™ll go a long way toward becoming a better, more likable, person. In this massive post, I share 101 ways to be a better person. I also think that becoming a better person is an ongoing goal, and thereвЂ™s never a real end point to reach. I canвЂ™t say that IвЂ™m perfect or that IвЂ™ve achieved my ideal self, because thereвЂ™s still so much IвЂ™ve to work on. It took a lot of inner work, but today, IвЂ™m a lot happier with who I am. I started off by listing the traits I didnвЂ™t like about myself, and then tackling them one at a time. Whilst I am writing this I don't know whether it'll work but I hope that it does.Subsequently, I decided to work on becoming a better person. When I read this poem I felt like these words were just like what had happened to me and I wanted to let her know. I had gotten poems off the web before to express the way that I felt about her and so I thought that that approach worked and so I should try it again.

We had a bit of an argument and I knew that I had to do something quickly for the relationship to work. When I thought things couldn't get worse they did. There are times when we're together alone that we find it best but others it looks doubtful. She has a negative opinion of herself and so that made things harder. My home life made things difficult and so there were times when things looked as if they weren't going to work for us. I took this time to think it through and eventually asked her out.

Luckily she dumped him and decided to move on. For ages I have had a thing for my best friend's sister, but, she was going out with someone else.

I think love you better now